Ok....Thanks to niklasinorr, I changed my suspension. I added a 5mm spacer to the rear shock and dropped the front 8mm, we didnt have a stand and wanted to drop it at 5mm, when I get a stand will move it to 5mm. I also stiffened the preload to almost full because of my weight. Anywho...the bike turns alot better now. It still is not what I want but closer. What I am really confused over is that I thought making this change would make it harder to wheelie. It is the opposite, front end just wants to rise in 1st and 2nd. Why would this happen?